Thursday, January 27, 2011

BLAST!

Holy snow, Batman! Washington was hit last night by a fast moving snow storm that absolutely crippled the city and put me smack in the middle of a commute that was sent directly from Satan.

Thinking that I'd be smart and prepared, I took the bus and Metro to work. I figured public transportation was the way to go, since the roads would be so horrendous during the evening commute.

Well, the roads were horrendous - I simply forgot that buses also need to be on the roads! It took me 3 hours and 5 minutes to travel the 7 miles between my office and home. As annoying at it was, I'm reading this morning that some people had a 13 HOUR COMMUTE and more than 400,000 people are without power. Susan just emailed to say that a car alarm outside of her apartment was going off from 11:30 last night to 8:00 this morning. Torture!

I have power, I made it home by 830 p.m., and I had a quiet night of sleep. I'll take these small blessings!

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Planning for XOXO Dinner

Invitations went out today for my Second Annual Hugs & Kisses Dinner! I'm so excited and I hope everyone is able to come. I'm already hatching plans for the menu, gifts and take-aways. The dinner is in 3 weeks...stay tuned!

Big kisses to Cody's mom, Marcy Johnson, for planting this idea in my head!

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Seriously????

So, here I am on January 18, three days after receiving my last paycheck, and I just looked at my checking account balance. $14.99. Seriously???? What the (#$@($&@($&! do I spend money on????

Now, in my defense, I put a huge chunk (probably too big) into savings accounts and paid my tithing, but still!!! It's not like I'm only bringing home $500 per paycheck.

Heaven help me, I need to exert some FINANCIAL CONTROL!!

Four Things About Me

I was reading my friend's blog today and she posted a series of "Four Things About Me" to help her readers get to know her better. Cute idea! While I don't have any "readers" (in theory, I'm writing this for my children and grandchildren...joke's on me!), I think it's a great idea, so here are "Four Things About Me":

Four Favorite TV Shows (sadly, I could easily make this Twelve Favorite TV Shows!)
Modern Family
Castle
The Good Wife
Grey's Anatomy

Four Things I'm Passionate About
Cooking and all things Ina Garten
My nephew, Sawyer
Good Tex-Mex
Organizing (curses to my Type A personality!)

Four Things I've Learned from the Past
Beds don't make themselves
Good girlfriends make everything beautiful and bearable
"Once on the lips, forever on the hips" really is true
"What goes around, comes around" isn't always true

Four Phrases I Overuse
"Seriously??"
"What time are we going to Rio?"
"This week I'm going to workout."
"I'm so tired."

Four Places I'd Love to Go
Argentina
Australia
Africa
Israel

Four Things I Did Yesterday
Signed up for a gym membership....seriously!
Ate lunch at Rio with Emily & Susan
Participated in a workshop at Apple to learn more about my iPad (waste of time)
Watched a delicious Lifetime TV movie called Marry Me. It was adorable!

Four Things I Love About Winter
Sweaters & turtlenecks
Watching snow fall while wrapped in a comfy blanket
Snow days!
It's pomegranate season

Monday, January 17, 2011

I Have a Dream

Meaning no disrespect to the noble dreams of Dr. Martin Luther King, who we're celebrating today, I'm taking a page out of his "I Have a Dream" speech to articulate 10 of my own dreams:

I will not die single and alone, after a lifetime being an "Old Maid", a "Spinster", a "never-been-married". Just the thought makes me want to curl up and choke on my own vomit.

I will meet and marry a man, who is my version of perfect. Yes, I know...no such thing. Key words: my version . Therefore his annoying and irritating habits will be acceptably adorable, as will mine to him.

I will have children who are healthy, happy and pleasant and who don't make me wish I was a Spinster.

I will wear a belt again.

Susan and all of my darling and beautiful friends will marry happily and have healthy children.

I won't live "paycheck-to-paycheck" but will have a financially comfortable life (especially critical if my Sugar Daddy doesn't materialize!).

Sawyer and my soon-to-arrive nephew will grow up to be awesome men, with whom I have a close relationship.

My mom remains healthy and self-sufficient.

I will own a home that overlooks something more interesting than a neighbor's home.

I will develop some kind of talent. Any talent. I will literally take anything.

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Welcome to 2011

Well, here I am on January 1, 2011 and I’m looking to a new year, wondering what lies ahead for me. Will I get a new job? Alternatively, will I lose my job due to economic circumstances??? Will I travel to a new, unexplored country? Will I make new friends? Will sadness or tragedy hit my friends or family? Will I enhance my spirituality? Lots of questions, lots of possibilities, and lots of opportunities.

I float back and forth every year as to whether I’m going to do the whole “resolution thing” as I usually find the exercise predictable (“lose weight”) or overwhelming (“climb Mt. Everest”). However, I have my goal book that I wrote several years ago and I think there are some good things in there that I can tackle in 2011. Herewith, the goals for 2011:

1. Read Jesus the Christ. Cherstyn gave me a copy of the book years ago and while I’ve read a large section and referenced different chapters for church lessons and talks, I’ve never read the book cover to cover. This year, I will.

2. Take a trip to honor my 40th birthday. In an effort to keep myself from swinging from a shower rod on September 6 (“AGH! I’m 40 years old and I don’t have a husband, a child, a substantive retirement account, or own my own home!!”), I want to go on a fun trip to an exciting country and make some great memories. I’m thinking of Argentina, but we’ll see in the coming months where I end up.

3. Lose 5-inches off my waist. Ok, I know. This is the typical “lose weight” resolution, but I really think I have to tackle this issue for health reasons. I feel great, but I definitely think that as I’m knocking on 40, I have to get the lbs off the body.

4. Become closer to receiving temple endowment. This is a major mental obstacle for me, but I’m sensing the need to go through the temple soon. I’ve talked with Bishop Sampson about it twice – both at his instigation, so it’s no credit to me – and I think it’s something I need to start thinking about more seriously. For years, I didn’t think about it because I stopped being a full tithe payer, but that issue was corrected three or four years ago, so now it’s just my own issues that I need to overcome.

5. Read the New Testament. This year, the Sunday School curriculum is the New Testament and I’d like to read the book “cover to cover” so-to-speak.

6. Build emergency savings to $40,000. In June 2009, I hit a major personal milestone when I managed to save $30,000 for an emergency savings account. It was a significant moment for me to have some financial security because for so many years (i.e., 15 years!)) I lived with some degree of consumer debt. Getting out from under that debt and building a savings account was huge. Unfortunately, in 2010, I had to draw $8,000 out of my hard-earned savings account. While $5,000 went to a Roth IRA, which is still savings, $3,000 went to that stupid Verizon wireless bill. As of today, my savings account stands at just over $21,000. It’s time to use 2011 to seriously build that account. I’m counting on my tax return, my annual bonus, and some good old fashion savings!

7. Pay 1% of my salary to charity. Susan gave me this idea last year and I thought it was terrific. So many of us always say, “When I make $X, I’ll give to charity.” Well, now I make $X, but outside of my 10% tithe to the church and the occasional check to the Boy Scouts or cancer research, I don’t give much to charity. The goal this year is to give 11% of my gross pay to charity – 10% to the church and 1% to other charitable causes.

8. Read War and Peace. Another beast of a resolution, but I can remember teaching a Relief Society lesson in the mid-1990s when I was a member of the Colonial Ward and I referenced a goal I set for myself to read the book. Well, it’s now 15 years later and there are no more excuses!

9. Finish Christmas quilt / stockings. Years ago, I completed 12 cross-stitches of Santa Claus scenes. Rather than continue to keep these blasted things in a Nordstrom box, tucked away at the back of a closet, where they’ve been for years, it’s time to do something with them!

10. Update my resume. I don’t “need” an updated resume right now, but my resume hasn’t been updated since early 2005, when I was looking for a job in San Francisco, so it’s time. I’ve done a lot of work in the past six years that I need to capture on paper. I’m not looking forward to doing this, but it needs to be done!

Well, there’s the list. I’m looking forward to 2011 and all that waits ahead for me. Here’s hoping I rise to my own challenges!